During our life together as a couple, we have always had a cat. (And, really, we aren’t cat people. Am I in denial?)
In fact, The Hubs adopted a huge, yellow cat for me from the SPCA when we were dating. I dubbed him Sam. (When I was tiny, I had a yellow tom cat dubbed “Kitty Sam.” This cat was about my fourth Sam.)
Sam moved from my apartment to our first place together to our new home.
He loved to laze around and was pretty much a low-maintenance guy.
Then, my grandmother passed away and we took in her cat, aptly named Goldie. (Funny story, but Grandma was visiting the cemetery where my grandfather was buried. As she made her way home down the dirt road, a neighbor flagged her down. “Why do you have a kitten riding on top of your car?” That is how she came to adopt “Goldie.” Isn’t it funny how our cats find us?)
Goldie and Sam tolerated each other pretty well. As they both aged, Sam began to have health problems and deteriorated pretty fast. Goldie, who was older, soon followed and declined quickly. (Even though they were both old, I always wondered if we didn’t have bad cat food—it was about that same time as the tainted pet food scare.)
It was hard.
We swore we would not have pets again.
Then, during a time period that I was pretty sick myself, Eliot entered our lives. This scrawny and scared kitten literally showed up on our doorstep. We fed her and made a bed for her on the patio because we were not going to have an indoor cat again.
Right.
It wasn’t long before she was ruling the house (inside).
(I could tell you that Eliot is really a miracle cat. Not only did she show up at a time we really needed some hope, but she also lived through a terrible health scare herself. Those are both stories for another day.)
Then, last summer, I found Izzy hanging around the garden. I left her some food there but she was soon making her presence known around the house. She was so scrawny and mangy looking. God bless her, but she was ugly.
We took her in. I think we have a blinking light on top of our house that says, “Wayward animals, come here. Suckers live here and they will feed you.”
We fed her and she perked up. Her coat became beautiful.
Eliot and Izzy hated each other. We were forced to keep them separated. Eliot stayed in the house and Izzy resided in our garage. They took shifts going outside.
We are all about spaying and neutering and being responsible pet owners so not long after Izzy arrived, she went to the vet. I had them test her for feline leukemia and she came back positive. I was told by our vet that this could be a false-positive because she was so young.
Last week we realized it was not. Izzy declined and declined fast. Because, again, she was so young, the vet thought if we could just get her past this illness, she might be ok for a while. We tried two rounds of antibiotics and one steroid shot to boost her appetite.
Finally, we realized she was not getting any better. We made a tremendously tough decision.
Our vet and the techs that work there were marvelous in explaining and answering all our questions. God bless them!
It is still hard to go over to the garage because we still want to hear her little steps running down the stairs to greet us. We still want to see her racing at top speed across the yard to run up the willow tree. We even miss her growling anytime she saw Eliot threw the patio doors.
Eliot is an only child again. I wonder how long it will be this time before that blinking light guides in another stray animal for us to take in.
R.I.P. Izzy.
(Sorry, I didn’t mean for this to turn into a history of our pets, but thanks for listening.)
So sad. I have one of toes blinking lights, too…
Thanks, Mimi. It is good to know there are more of us.
From one cat mommy to another, I’m so sorry for your loss. May she RIP.
Thank you, Jen.
I can’t express how sorry I am to hear this. Big, big hugs for you and I know you need it. It is so hard to lose a pet. They sure have a way of getting into your heart and soul. Bless Izzy.
Those crazy cats do have a way of getting to you.
So sorry to hear about your loss–Izzy looks like a charmer. Amazing how out pets impact our lives.
Yeah, and eve though she and Ellie hated each other, I think she senses that izzy is gone.
:-((( RIP, Izzy. Izzy was so thin…
Thanks, Angie.
Oh my heart breaks for you! I can’t believe you only had her a year. I actually remember when she started showing up last year! So terribly sad. I’m so sorry for your loss. Some people think losing an animal is no big deal, but as the mother of a fur baby myself, I know that they become real family and I’m dreading the day when ours goes. BTW, you are totally cat people! haha
Yes, we are cat people. It is official I guess. Non-fur baby owners don’t get how much of a family member a pet can become.
I’m so sorry for you your loss! My heart still hurts from the loss of my pet dogs when I was 14 – RIP Izzy!
They affect us in many different ways. Thanks, Kelli.
I am so, so sorry. Our furry friends work their way into our hearts…and become family. I know you are heart broken 🙁
Eliot is consoling us. Thanks, Liz.
Losing pets can be so hard. Sorry about Izzy. We are most definitely cat people, and our current kitty is the best cat ever! We lost her predecessor quite suddenly earlier this year (pancreatic cancer) and lasted maybe a week before we went to the shelter to adopt another cat. So glad we did!
I think everyone has a pet story. We are waiting. Content with eliot for now;however, we just had friends call who found a German shepherd puppy and wanted to know if we wanted him. 🙂
As a cat lover who’s cats mean the world to her, I sincerely send furry hugs your way from my family to yours!
Thanks, Pamela.
It breaks my heart to read this story. I know how difficult it is to loose a pet. Sounds like Izzy needed you to come to her rescue, and you gave her a fun and safe place to live before she had to go away. That makes you special. That’s why animals (cats) find your house. R.I.P. Izzy.
She gave us much joy.
Lots and lots of hugs to you and your husband on this loss of your sweet Izzy. So sad. 🙁 When we first got married we were dog people but after 4 years we lost our dog and have been cat people ever since. They are such sweet animals and I don’t know if I could ever not have at least one sweety. I’m very sad for you and may sweet Izzy RIP.
Thanks, M.J. Thankfully we still have Eliot.
I’ve had the e-mail for this post sitting in my in-box all weekend but didn’t want to look at it because I was afraid it would run along these lines, and it did. Now I’m crying. I’m so, so sorry, Deb. Like you, I’ve always had a cat in my house. Unlike you (yeah, right), I’ve always loved cats so much more than dogs. I know how the loss leaves a hole in the heart for a long time. I hope that the neon sign works and another wayward wanderer finds their way to your door. Just make sure it’s a boy. Girl cats rarely do well with other girl cats.
But, Eliot does seem a bit more somber, like she senses there is a loss. Thanks for the thoughts, Cristiane.
I’m so sorry for your loss Debra… it is absolutely heartbreaking losing a dear pet and family friend. They enrich our lives in so many ways and a part of us misses them forever. Izzy was so blessed to come into your good and loving hands — may she rest in peace. Hugs to you, hubs and Eliot.
Thanks for the hugs, Kelly.